Squirting is one of those phenomena that everyone has an opinion on, but which is still widely misunderstood. Some think it’s a myth, others see it as the ultimate climax — and then there are those who don’t quite know what’s going on. Time to lay out the facts.
1. Yes, squirting is real
Some people still claim squirting is just a fantasy invented by the porn industry, but that’s complete nonsense. Scientific studies have shown that some people can indeed expel fluid during orgasm. It’s not magic, it’s not a Hollywood effect — it’s a real physical process.
2. It doesn’t come from the bladder… or does it?
One of the biggest misconceptions about squirting is where the fluid comes from. Research suggests it’s partly produced by the Skene’s glands, located around the urethra and comparable to the prostate in men. But let’s be honest: there’s usually a bit of urine involved too. Gross? Not really — it’s usually diluted and almost odorless.
3. It’s not the same as getting wet
Getting wet from arousal and squirting are two totally different things. Regular vaginal lubrication comes from glands in the vagina and helps everything glide. Squirting fluid comes from a different system and has a different origin and composition.
4. Not everyone can do it (and that’s okay)
Some women can squirt easily, others can with practice, and for some it just never happens. And no, that doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong or that something’s broken. It’s simply a physical trait — like being able to roll your tongue or not.
5. It has nothing to do with a “better” orgasm
Squirting is often hyped up as the holy grail of sex, as if it’s proof you’ve reached the ultimate climax. The truth? You can have a mind-blowing orgasm without squirting, and you can squirt without feeling an intense orgasm. One doesn’t necessarily mean the other.
6. It can happen without an orgasm
Here’s where it gets interesting: squirting doesn’t always come with an orgasm. Some people experience it during arousal or stimulation without actually climaxing. That means it’s more of a reflex than a guaranteed result of an orgasm.
7. G-spot stimulation helps, but it’s not required
Squirting is often linked to intense G-spot stimulation, but that’s not the only way it can happen. Some experience it during penetration, others through clitoral stimulation, and a few even without direct touch — purely through arousal.
8. There’s more fluid than you’d expect
People who squirt are often surprised by how much fluid is released. It can range from a few drops to a serious gush. Some compare it to squeezing a water bottle, others to a mild splash. Either way, it’s usually more than anticipated.
9. It serves no known function (as far as we know)
From an evolutionary standpoint, squirting doesn’t appear to serve a direct purpose. It’s not a necessary bodily function like lubrication or orgasm for reproduction. But hey — not everything in the human body has to be practical. Sometimes it just is, because our bodies are weird and wonderful.
10. It can get messy
Let’s be real: squirting can be messy. Some people use towels, others lay down special mats, and some just go with the flow and wash the sheets later. However you handle it, there’s nothing to be ashamed of — it’s just a natural body response, like sweating during sex.
Squirting is one of those things shrouded in mystery, but in reality, it’s just a natural phenomenon. Whether it happens to you or not, it’s no measure of how good sex is. As with everything: no pressure, no expectations, and definitely no bullshit — just enjoy whatever your body does.
